bffs...

boyfriend? or best friends forever?

Liwei and I were having a chat one day and we came to the topic of friends. I was asking him whether is it true that people would think that once a person gets attached, they have less time for their friends? or we get disconnected from people? or people don't wanna disturb us cos we are attached? He said that in a way it's true that's why extra effort has to be made to meet up with friends and make them feel that they are not left out in a way.

I am very thankful for him 'cos he's someone who would think for people more than I do sometimes, he's more sensitive towards people than i do sometimes too. He's more giving of his time and his finances and he is always willing to go an extra mile for people. While I think of resting early 'cos of work the next day, he is willing to spend time with his friend in the wee hours. He thinks for my family, recently my dad hasn't been very well, he would come down after his work to visit my dad, spend time with them and also pray with me for my family. He is a thoughtful man :)
Recently there has been a few squabbles here and there due to lack of communication, some differences that we shared, he sat us down and really talk things out. I always tell people that he's different from other guys 'cos while an average word bank for a guy is 15,000, his is 30,000 which is a blessing to me especially when my love language is words of affirmation and when an average woman's word bank is 30,000, i think mine is only 15,000 :)
While I'm not so generous with my praises sometimes, he is a man who often encourages and never fail to assure me of his love towards me. He is a gentleman, in every aspect of the word. Gentle in his words, gentle when he holds me, patient with my weaknesses and when I'm really stress at work, he's patient to listen to me and knows how to build me up and make me happy :) He reminds us to love the word of God, to build up our own walk with God which is something which I really really appreciate. It's going to be 7 months in 6 days! And still, I am amaze at how we have grown. I am thankful...am grateful to God 'cos I found a BFF in him and if I could sing a song to him..I would sing...'you make me feel...you make me feel...you make me feel like a natural woman' hahahha :)

Yet when I am busy enjoying my 'attached' status ha ha...I think of the people around me, he reminds me to not forget about my friends because they are also as important :)

mE At differen times

Very 'focused' and 'stress' look during near assignment datelines n when workload piles up!



and i WISH upon a star :) Feeling a little more free...Yeah!!!

Breathe!

The whole of last week was quite a week for me.

I was feeling quite normal after receiving all the dates of my assignment datelines on top of work work, but the more I started to think about it and as I started to do one of my assignment that was due to be handed in yesterday (thank God I managed to complete it), I started to feel very overwhelm especially as I was doing my assignment, i got stucked a couple of times. On top of that, I caught a Viral infection and it triggered my asthma. Usually, whenever I get asthma it's cos I'm under under stress or have overworked. It was a terrible feeling, to fall sick and yet have all these work to think about.

But God is always good, it's during this time where I took complete rest from LB work, stayed home for 2 days...Begin to just pray and finish up one of my assignment. I also had the time to sort my thoughts out just calm down. You know how it is sometimes we just struggle and say ' but i have to do this, and that, and that...' It's this Martha syndrome..And sometimes we want things to run so smoothly and perfectly, like I don't have to struggle and get frustrated, but God just allow us to go through it so that we learn to let go and rely on Him more...

And so I thank God that eventhough i STILL have all the crazy datelines to meet...but I'm taking one step at a time, slice the cake in bite sizes so it's easier to swallow :)

BLogger's back! Yipee!!!

Yipee..blogger's back to normal!! :P What a love, hate relationship many have with it!

Remember the day that I had to run the show with hsin yi only at LB? We had a good treat of chicken chop!! Yum yum...It's home made food! Well this is part of our school's menu, we get to eat this once, forthnightly.



look at the food man.....it was my mum's bday yesterday and we celebrated her birthday at JU SHIN JUNG Korean Charcoal BBQ at east coast. It's the 2nd time i've been there and i totally love it!! Go there if you must.

okAY, we didn't order all these food, it just comes with the set that we order haha...

:)

yikes

I'm totally upset!

Even blogger got Punk'd~!!

There's some problems with their HTML, I can't upload photos nor change my font settings!! Sigh..

Think, I may have to find alternatives again, if you have any good suggestions...do drop in ur comments ya! Thanks a lot!!

Wanna blog a few things recently but 'cos of what happened to blogger, i'm a little stuck. Yikes!

Anyhow..just some things...

One fine Thursday at Little Big, I came to work, went to the kitchen to get a drink and Hsin Yi came in and said 'Daphne, today it's just you and me' :) What a pleasant surprise! Yep 3 teachers down! But it was alright, could manage things pretty okay 'cos there wasn't many children too. The teachers have working pretty hard, it was a well-deserve break for them that day :)

1st Sept was teacher's day and the city college family had a luncheon at YUM CHA at china town, it was a great get together for everyone, really miss the ppl back in CHEC. Little Big had a memorable time working there....Remembered all the plowing season for all of us :)

I have tons of assignments to submit soon, 1 every week, starting from this week all the way to November, and this excludes my final THESIS of 6000 words. Yikes! Today, I woke up feeling totally tired and exhausted 'cos I haven't been having a good sleep, think the workload have been interrupting my sleep too. Is that what you call stress? haha..I went to work like zombie and caught a flu, so I'm down now...Really praying to get well!!! Cos I can't afford to fall sick at this time!!

Been wanting to do some meet up with friends, really miss hanging out but gotto to hang in there until i've gotten over all these workload.

Alrighty, that's bout it for now....gotto work hard, pray hard and love hard? haha..

:)

More Recents..

Recents

On Sunday, I took a break from watching my diet and went and indulge with my sis and her eldest son at Seoul Garden Tampines :)



YUM!


I love their chicken bologanaise... :)



Last Thursday, went to catch up with Ah ma at bukit batok, her place at 9.30pm :) Missed talking to her, she's already coming to 80yrs old n she still looks so young. That's because the Joy of e Lord is her strength and she prays like a warrior everyday!

Zachary aka 'my son'

Ah..look at this doll :) Her name's Zara, 3yrs old this yr. She's really like a doll!


Angel and Vera having a Karoke session!


Believe it or not? 3yr old Vera took this for me! Impressed. :)

YL's openhouse....Friendship is... "__________"


hardworking bf or rather spiritual bf? hee...Reading Dr Cho's book.


mid-night at east coast one fine day...sleepy him!

Oh we celebrated Teacher's day today and Hsin Yi cooked a special marinated chicken and pasta for us! We also had sheperd's pie, garlic prawns,thai noodles....aHHH..hearing all of it makes me feel fat! haha...but it's all lovely food, had a bit here and there...too good to resist.

PT came in with Joel today and passed us some gifts, he said to Joel "Jo...what must u say to ur teacher? happy what? happy? happy t....jo...t....teacher's day!" haha..

and we had some filming done in LB, catch us on announcement in the month of Sept, LB's promo month!

good night y'all!